SpAzpieSweeTot said:
On another note, it's kind of hard to defend that we aren't pedophiles, when some of us are actively buying diapers intended to fit children. Certainly not calling anyone here the most horrible thing imaginable. Not saying it's a perfect way to look at things, because, by that logic, anyone who's ever bought a chime rattle for himself, or herself. . . (Adult chime rattles don't exist yet. Do they?) I'm not even saying buying baby diapers is an indefensible evil. Far from it. Baby diapers and chime rattles are in the same boat. Just saying that's why adult diapers, with baby prints, are a thing, and the fact that they're sized, and work, correctly, helps our image, to the few judgmental idiots who's minds can be changed about us. I think I've found a way to be clear.
One of us thows said would-be idiot an ABU kiddo, and says, "See? This can't fit a child! It fits me! It's not about children, you ass! It's about me feeling like one!"
Okay, when I said this, someone said I was equating every ABDL who bought baby diapers with pedos. If I wanted to, I would, flat out, because, I'm grown, and, "I meant what I said, and, I said what I meant. This Aspie is blunt as a spoon, 100%," so, when I said I
certainly was not calling anyone here the worst thing imaginable, you could've taken that to the bank, and, here's a thought, had a conversation with me.
I wasn't calling anyone that, nor would I, ever, I'll have everyone know! The best way I can explain what I actually
was saying, Mr., or MRS.,
"say," is with a hypothetical.
Let's say an ABDLs loved one finds a baby diapers stash, said ABDL uses as boosters, but doesn't find that ABDL's adult diapers, or, the ABDL in question doesn't use them. If the loved one is now thinking, "OMG, pedo," see how that ABDL is in a harder to defend position?
It's that way with most things. That's why, on my paci, the teet, and the guard, are adult size. I want to be in the most easily defensible position possible. Even most of my plushies are huge, too big to be safe for a baby.
I didn't say I didn't understand y'all. I do. I called the would-be hater's way of thinking wrong. I know that. I wish none of us had to worry about what anyone thought if we go online looking for ideas for custom clothing based on the real thing. I know starry Ideas has, "from picture to garment," and, since I can't draw well, what am I to do? That's right. Look at clothes for real kids. Since transporting wheelchair using, non-driving, me, is harder, I can't just go browse the stores' kiddy sections, so, I Internet window shop, even though it'd be easier to explain browsing those sections of stores, because, I'm the right age for having kids. You think I like having to be so ridiculously careful there's no kids in any of the clothes!? No, but there can't be any question.
I'm a clothie, for goodness sake. No one understands it better than me, because, the adult cloth diaper world is so far behind, I actually have to look at the baby equivalent, and extrapolate, to have my own made, because, nothing in the cloth Little bABy world exists like what I need. Like I said, I want a chime rattle, but, they don't exist for ABs yet, so, if I want one. . . Right. It has to be a baby one, just like y'all with your diapies, so, with as much looking at bio little things as I do, for ideas for toys, bottles, clothes, and diapies, why would I call anyone a pedo!? See? Understand now I'm not calling any of us slimeballs? If anyone thinks I still am, can he or she explain to me how? Wow, if this is what sharing an unpopular opinion gets me, I can leave.
We shouldn't have to be so stupid careful every time we want a chime rattle, new Little bABy clothes, actual working cloth diapers, or, anything else, but, we do, and baby printed adult disposable diapers, and adult paci teets
and shields, help us, so why not use them? I wonder sometimes, if it's occurred to those of you with adult teets, but baby guards, that you could fit the whole thing in your mouths, and that's not advised. Lest I'm misunderstood
again, it's a, "me thing," that explains me not liking baby guards, because, I'm extra paranoid, and, honestly, picky, and, I feel, that my guard fitting my face, helps me defend myself, should some judgemental doody-head ever find out.
I understand the baby shields cost less. More power to those who have them.
It's like you sposie Little bABies are spitting on a wonderful resource! That was my entire point! No matter what the item is, the better it fits your adult body, the more obvious it is, that it's not for a child, and, the easier it is, to see we're not lying, when we say it's not about children. Understand now? Sorry I'm a little miffed. It's not at anyone. It's just at the fact I'm misunderstood so often.
