Sexual attraction [adult content]

Im having conflicting thoughts here i just dont understand how it is possible to be sexualy attracted to wearing a diaper i mean its exilerating but what i dont get is needing them now thats about the only time i get hard latly but i used to have alot of non diaper faticys that would get my rocks off. Fantacys about women do it for me but latly cant seem to get it up is this just due to wearing a diaper and being aroused for long periods of time or am i missing somthing i have been masturbating alot latly tho

That's just the thing about fetishes, not everyone has them. But people do have diaper fetishes. It may not be your thing (or mine), but for some it is. And the key factor for anyone with a fetish is that yes they do need to at the very least think about that fetish in order to reach a climax. That's just how fetishes work.

And yes, mastubating a lot will make it more difficult to get aroused in general.

Have you been without diapers for a while? Maybe trying to quit? (Just noticed you were gone for about six months...) Anyway, it sounds like you might be in the midst of the so-called "binge/purge cycle." There are no universal explanations or remedies, but from what I've seen and experienced, it's easiest to avoid this by simply keeping diapers around and letting yourself indulge when the urges hit. If you're trying to starve away those urges, they'll only seem to get worse. On the other hand, if you just take care of them as they come, they'll probably (quickly) diminish to a level where you can worry about other things.

...Because, really, there's not a lot one can do to "quit" a fetish. There are a handful of abstract explanations for why we develop these kinds of attractions in early childhood, but the causal factors of your particular case are not something you're likely to work out--similar to other matters of sexuality.

Think of trying to quit diapers like trying to quit using the steering wheel when you drive. It doesn't work. You eventually cross the centerline or drift off onto the shoulder, and then you have to make a dramatic correction. Keep your hands on the wheel.

do you fight your lady recently so depressed and can't get stiffness in your rod?

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Ok so im trying to understand y lm sexualy atracted to wearing a diaper hard to do ... i dont have a girl friend at the moment im not sure if i want one again but thats beside the point ... i dont feel im in a benge purge cycle what im trying to say is it surprises me that i dont feel as sexualy attracted to other women in my fantacys or women in general ive had over the years vs the last couple weeks being diapered at night is the only time i get a hard on also im not gay or bi
I just seem to gravitate toward this one object...

I masturbate to porn almost daily but I can count the times I have fapped to regular non-diaper porn with one hand fingers XD However, if I don't use diapers nor fap for a week or two, almost every porn gets me hard is it regular vanilla or some weird shit. And diaper porn 10x more horny...

But anyways it doesn't bother me that I can't fap to vanilla pron. I suggest you to try to accept yourself and understand you can't choose your fetishes.

EDIT: I like women though (IRL) but I haven't tried to get one because too much hassle :biggrin: I wanna get a wife and lasting relationship with her when I'm older and more mature though

And my life is otherwise balanced, only thing not so balanced is pron I watch. But I don't care because porn you watch doesn't matter.

Mojo said:

Ok so im trying to understand y lm sexualy atracted to wearing a diaper hard to do ... i dont have a girl friend at the moment im not sure if i want one again but thats beside the point ... i dont feel im in a benge purge cycle what im trying to say is it surprises me that i dont feel as sexualy attracted to other women in my fantacys or women in general ive had over the years vs the last couple weeks being diapered at night is the only time i get a hard on also im not gay or bi
I just seem to gravitate toward this one object...

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I see. I'm not sure any of us can give you a good answer to that question. While it seems more common for diaper fetishes to coexist with a desire for sex, there are plenty (relatively speaking) for whom diapers are sort of the main attraction. During and shortly after puberty, I wondered if that might be the case for me, but as my teenage years slipped by, I found myself steadily more attracted to the idea of sex with the opposite gender. And then that sort of took the lead. Diaper-wearing has remained an important tool of sexual release for me, however. Anyway... Since you mention having (recently) been attracted to women and to sex, you should probably just relax for a while, go with the flow, and see where things end up. It sounds like you've been doing the diaper thing a lot lately, and perhaps that will taper off. You may find a balance. These things are very individual, though.

sexual desire and diapers have nothing to do with each other

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bunnyhabit said:

sexual desire and diapers have nothing to do with each other

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Rule 34 would like to have a little talk with you.

bunnyhabit said:

sexual desire and diapers have nothing to do with each other

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Maybe for you

Now im confused about rule 34 maby just a joke

I myself find not only do i get aroused by diapers themselves (sometimes even being in a clean one, but its stronger if I'm wet/messy), but also women in diapers.

And I'm comfortable with that, understanding theres not much I can do about it besides to keep a balance in life (I know fighting it would be much harder than to just accept it and indulge at times).

Mojo said:

Now im confused about rule 34 maby just a joke

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In this context, "anything can be sexualized". Diapers are certainly not an exception, and given their location and physical stimulation, the odds get much greater simply by a coincidence of design.

You've got no better chance of ruling out diapers for fetish value than trying to rule out a color from being some people's favorite. They can't explain it, and you shouldn't dismiss it.

Sexual desire in terms of a fetish and being a diaper lover in fact means that one is sexually stimulated by the object, in this case, the object being a diaper, so one shouldn't be surprised. I would be alarmed though if the desire to fantasize sex with a human doesn't return. That's when it's time to seek psychological help. At least that's what I've read. I've heard of cases where people were so dependent on porn images to get off, that they had to look at porn in order to have sex with another human. They sought psychological help.

I think looking at porn can also help you get in the mood for sex with another human. So it's not so much the need, but with my high stress life lately, it does help to set the mood. Maybe I'm just getting older.
As for the diapers and getting off, that is the main reason I wear from time to time. I love the feel of a wet diaper and the ultimate ending when it gets to a certain wetness. I also know I am attracted to my wife and do wish at times she would wear one as well. But that will likely not happen and I gave up pushing. So diapers have become the forbidden fruit that I sneak in from time to time and I think that helps keep it sexually attractive for me. It is rare that I wear and she is aware, so it just is easier to do it quietly. It's all about balance.

Slomo said:

That's just the thing about fetishes, not everyone has them. But people do have diaper fetishes. It may not be your thing (or mine), but for some it is. And the key factor for anyone with a fetish is that yes they do need to at the very least think about that fetish in order to reach a climax. That's just how fetishes work.

And yes, mastubating a lot will make it more difficult to get aroused in general.

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As Slomo said...

paraphilia:
unconditional requirement of presence of unusual sexual objects, sexual practices or circumstances, as beeing the (unwillingly) requirement of sexual arousal.

fetishism:
a paraphilia, using (non-living) objects, with whom the person had an intimate coincidence in the past, to achieve sexual arousal

causes:
one theoretical model of developing paraphilia:
paraphilia are a consequence of a similar coincidence in childhood as beeing the first sexual experience

another theoretical model of developing paraphilia:
conditioning, causal to sexual phantasies, or memories based on early (childhood) sexual experience

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For example:
Imagine a toddler (strong sexual arousal already possible) rocking a seasaw (etc.) at the playground, in his wet diapers becoming intensively pleasured by movement, friction and pressure - wanting to do it again and again, etc...

As you can see there are many possible childhood coincidences beeing capable to cause diaper fetishism...
- getting your diapers changed
- baby swing
- running/playing in messy diapers and tight clothes
- driving in wet diapers, while beeing locked in a 5-point-harness
- ...

Mojo said:

Ok so im trying to understand y lm sexualy atracted to wearing a diaper hard to do ... i dont have a girl friend at the moment im not sure if i want one again but thats beside the point ... i dont feel im in a benge purge cycle what im trying to say is it surprises me that i dont feel as sexualy attracted to other women in my fantacys or women in general ive had over the years vs the last couple weeks being diapered at night is the only time i get a hard on also im not gay or bi
I just seem to gravitate toward this one object...

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I've been reading all the information I could find on this subject for over 40 years and this is what I've put together so far. Men are very object oriented when it comes to sexual desires. This is because, at a very young age, nature implants in our minds the objects we will later find to be sexually attractive. Most of us get imprinted with a number of various objects. If these objects are specifically female oriented, such as female breasts, butts, legs, hair, scent, voice, etc., we are considered to be "normal heterosexuals". There is no doubt a strong genetic tendency for nature to favor heterosexual objects when it comes to implanting desires in us, but nature isn't bound by man-made concepts of how evolution is supposed to work. There is no known evolutionary advantage for people to be sexually stimulated by diapers, but there is clearly an advantage to having evolved a mechanism that is flexible enough to include variations, even when those variations defy our beliefs about evolution.

So congratulations! You've been selected by nature to participate in an experiment to see if diaper love is a benefit to our species.

I'm just guessing about why you might be gravitating more towards diapers than women, so take this part with a grain of salt. In a nutshell: you are just being pragmatic about your current situation. You are sexually attracted to diapers and to various female characteristics. These are all imprinted characteristics so they will tend to be strong and permanent. But, for now, diapers are readily available and the perfect female for you isn't. So, for practical reasons, you're shifting your focus. It makes perfect sense.

I like diapers since little child. I had no sexual problems with my first and second girlfriend, but as more I went into using diapers, and masturbate after wettig and messing my diaper, I began to have erectile and eyaculation problems with normal sex. But if my sexual partner is wearing a poopy diaper, the turn on is so huge thats the only way to achieve to cum. Now i can cum ONLY if there are wet and messy dipers at the sexual intercourse. I have tryed to cum watching normal porn, but I can't. There is very dificult for me to find a girl or woman who likes to use diapers, and the only way to get sexual satisfaction is when I masturbate in my messy diaper. Even the smell of my own poopy diaper turns me on. After cum, I feel ashamed with myself, feel guilty, and freak. But the next day, all begins again and I end sitting on my mess and jerking off. When I have money to afford it I go to special prostitutes who poops in her diapers at my request. But its very expensive, and I feel even more guilty and depressed after doing it.

bambinod said:

Rule 34 would like to have a little talk with you.

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I've been here for less than a year, rule 34?

littlemoosey said:

I've been here for less than a year, rule 34?

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A parity to NCIS is all i can think of.