My boyfriend is into abdl and while I support him wholeheartedly and love him just the same. He wants me to be a part of it too. Only problem is, is that I get what I'm calling these "anxiety attacks" whenever we start talking about me participating. I have put one on before but only for a few minutes before I started to get upset and didn't want to keep it on. We have had several discussions about this and tried most everything we could think of to try and ease me into it but so far nothing has worked. He's really excited about being able to talk to me about it since he wasn't able to do that before but sometimes his excitement gets overwhelming and I have one of the aforementioned "attacks". I don't know why I get them and its only just started to happen. I thought at first that it was because he was trying to "force" it on me but that turned out to not be the case as even when I tried to ease myself into it myself it didn't seem to work and I've been trying for months if not years. I know that part of me wants to participate in this with him but the rest of me seems to be holding me back, I've asked him a lot of questions related to abdl already and while most of them were very out there questions that even I thought were strange to ask to try and ease some of the fear that I have they only seemed to raise more questions. So, what I'm trying to say is if anyone has any advice on what to do that would be greatly appreciated as both of us have no idea of where to go from here.
Thanks
Arashi:smile1:
Thanks
Arashi:smile1:
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