I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I finally decided to gauge his interest in me wearing diapers. I didn't want to just directly ask him in case it was just too much for him, so I decided to get into a hypothetical discussion with him about how we would both see it if each of us was into several different kinks. It was a great way to see what each of us might like, as well as what our hard boundaries were, and it was just a fun talk in general.
Eventually I threw the idea of diapers in there, and he responded with a hard no. Since that was secretly my agenda topic, I was very disappointed in that response, especially since many of his other boundaries didn't make it seem like that one would be included. I respect his decision, but I'm not sure where to go from there. Since I am very interested in diapers and that's not going to go away, what else can I do with that answer?
I don't want to force the topic on him, and I certainly don't want to leave him over something like a kink I can't share with him. He's been the perfect man in so many ways and I want to keep things right between us. I only wish I could be open with him about my interest here, even without including him in it, if only so I didn't have to hide this from him.
Eventually I threw the idea of diapers in there, and he responded with a hard no. Since that was secretly my agenda topic, I was very disappointed in that response, especially since many of his other boundaries didn't make it seem like that one would be included. I respect his decision, but I'm not sure where to go from there. Since I am very interested in diapers and that's not going to go away, what else can I do with that answer?
I don't want to force the topic on him, and I certainly don't want to leave him over something like a kink I can't share with him. He's been the perfect man in so many ways and I want to keep things right between us. I only wish I could be open with him about my interest here, even without including him in it, if only so I didn't have to hide this from him.