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I'm caught.

So I store my stash in an old sport bag in my closet. You see, in my family we kinda respect each other’s privacy (or I used to think so). Like we don’t dig through each other’s stuff and (usually) don’t enter each other’s rooms without permission. So I just hid my stash in my closet trusting that no one would go digging through my stuff. Well…

I went to sleep over at a friend’s place for the weekend and while I was gone my parents went on holiday. I just came back and found my bag gone and my stuff neatly packed in a different bag behind my bed. Now, I’m not sure but my best guess is that my parents needed the bag and, instead of taking their own bags or taking one of the four other bags lying around or just taking their suitcases (literally wth mom), they took the one I was using.

So, I need advice. What do I do? I mean it’s not like my parents are that strict or not accepting or whatever. But I just don’t really feel comfortable with my parents knowing. I could say it’s a friend’s. idk, what do I do?
 
Daca said:
I'm caught.

So I store my stash in an old sport bag in my closet. You see, in my family we kinda respect each other’s privacy (or I used to think so). Like we don’t dig through each other’s stuff and (usually) don’t enter each other’s rooms without permission. So I just hid my stash in my closet trusting that no one would go digging through my stuff. Well…

I went to sleep over at a friend’s place for the weekend and while I was gone my parents went on holiday. I just came back and found my bag gone and my stuff neatly packed in a different bag behind my bed. Now, I’m not sure but my best guess is that my parents needed the bag and, instead of taking their own bags or taking one of the four other bags lying around or just taking their suitcases (literally wth mom), they took the one I was using.

So, I need advice. What do I do? I mean it’s not like my parents are that strict or not accepting or whatever. But I just don’t really feel comfortable with my parents knowing. I could say it’s a friend’s. idk, what do I do?
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Whatever you do, don't lie about it. I'd honestly say nothing until they confront you about it. If you want to tell them, (again) be honest. That's what I did with my parents and they could care less...
 
Daca said:
I'm caught.

So I store my stash in an old sport bag ... I just came back and found my bag gone and my stuff neatly packed in a different bag behind my bed.
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What was in the stash, what was the "stuff"?
 
Don't do anything for now. If they bring it up, then discuss it. The fact that they didn't throw it away and put it neatly away says it might be an acceptance gesture.
 
if they don't bring it up, try to forget it ever happened.

odds are good that they don't really feel like talking about it either, and if you don't bring it up, they won't either.
 
Don't poke a sleeping bear. Wait until they say something and if they do just be honest.
 
If you wish to not really talk about it and they bright it up you could simply say it is a comfort thing but dont worry i am fine medically if they worry about such issues ,
 
All good advise from above. I agree, let sleeping bears lie unless it gets brought up. If they do mention it, don't say you are wetting the bed as then they'll be worried and insist you see a doctor. You'll simply have to bite the bullet and say wearing diapers gives you a sense of peace, etc.

My mom found my stash when I was in college and I simply told her I enjoyed wearing and wetting. Oddly enough, she was aware of infantalism. She didn't approve and I had to lay off for a while. Eventually I graduated from college, got a job and got my own place where I could wear diapers whenever I wanted.
 
Daca said:
I'm caught.

So I store my stash in an old sport bag in my closet. You see, in my family we kinda respect each other’s privacy (or I used to think so). Like we don’t dig through each other’s stuff and (usually) don’t enter each other’s rooms without permission. So I just hid my stash in my closet trusting that no one would go digging through my stuff. Well…

I went to sleep over at a friend’s place for the weekend and while I was gone my parents went on holiday. I just came back and found my bag gone and my stuff neatly packed in a different bag behind my bed. Now, I’m not sure but my best guess is that my parents needed the bag and, instead of taking their own bags or taking one of the four other bags lying around or just taking their suitcases (literally wth mom), they took the one I was using.

So, I need advice. What do I do? I mean it’s not like my parents are that strict or not accepting or whatever. But I just don’t really feel comfortable with my parents knowing. I could say it’s a friend’s. idk, what do I do?
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Either deny it all or be honest and hopefully they’re ok with might let you continue what’s the worst there gonna tell you to guilt and that’s about it


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Your only option is to tell the truth; with them not saying anything or spewing the contents over an infinite distance supports the idea that they are impartial to it and treat it as your private thing. I think my parents did the same thing a few years back, no word of it. If they ask about it, you need to be prepared with calculated answers that put you in the best light with nothing but truth.

However, if you really feel compelled to try to save your ass assuming you think it is going to be negative. Your response would be dictated on the contents of the bag. Was it baby diapers or adult diapers? Were there any paraphilic items in there like onesies or pacifiers in the adult size? Think carefully.
 
I highly doubt they’ll even ask you about it. They probably just think ‘oh that’s very weird but also obviously not my business lol’. Why would they really need to ask you? They have access to Google and they can figure out what it’s about. They snooped around and found something they probably wished they didn’t, why make it worse putting you on the spot?
 
At least your parents didn't ask you about it, you could always treat it as it didn't happened unless they asks you about it, a few months ago i was caught and my mom confronted me (stupid me left a diaper in the bathroom). I told her it was nothing to worry about, i never spoke about it ever since and i treat it as if it didn't happened. My mom still sometimes hints me about it but i just pretend not to know and deflect her questions, luckily she values my privacy and didn't pry further else i would have no way to avoid it. It is still awkward when she hints me about it but i never found the courage to tell her that i liked wearing diapers for fun.
 
quick update:
My parents came home today and they didn't sit me down or anything. i feel like they act a little weird but thats probably just me being a little awkward with the whole situation. Anyway i just hope they dont bring it up at all tho I'm slightly scared they still will but it looks like they dont really care.

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Llayden said:
What was in the stash, what was the "stuff"?
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A pack of adult diapers, a pack of goodnites, an adult paci, a normal paci and a bottle.
 
They might be just as “scared” to talk as you are. Sometimes it takes a few weeks to bring something up to light. They maybe worried about your health and stability. If they do ask about the things they found, be honest, but also say it’s personal and leave it at that. Your over the age of 18, so they need to let the little birdi fly away a little from the nest
 
Daca said:
quick update:
My parents came home today and they didn't sit me down or anything. i feel like they act a little weird but thats probably just me being a little awkward with the whole situation. Anyway i just hope they dont bring it up at all tho I'm slightly scared they still will but it looks like they dont really care.

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A pack of adult diapers, a pack of goodnites, an adult paci, a normal paci and a bottle.
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Well, if they go to Google, they'll know what this is about but hopefully they'll leave it alone. Actually, there's nothing to be accomplished by discussing this. I'm sure you're embarrassed, but life goes on. When my mom found my diapers, she also found gay porn and there was a discussion about both, leading to me having to see a psychiatrist, so I think you're doing well, all things considered.
 
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