mailcat i feel for you i to was nearly raped by 2 guys back when all doors in to the school was unlocked they came up on me over powered me in my manual wheelchair off in to dark room they took me i was lucky that someone heard the scuffle and came in the room needless to say i to ended up in special needs ended up being the best move the school and mom made want or need to chat feel free to message me any time would like to help you if i can not sure if i can for me i can not stand guys doing any my care or drs nurses and my now home aide i get each day all have to be ladies or they dont even get to come in the door same at the drs office or hospital i have to have my home aide with me even