I use a pull up every day as I can usually get to a bathroom on time, but not always. I find them to be the perfect solution for day time wear and have tried several different ones. My favorite is Abena M3. They fit me great, are absorbent, hold up to being pulled down and up and are comfortable.
I've tried North Shore flex, north shore go, Tranquility ATN and Tena Maxi. Again, I like Abena M3 the best or if I think I can keep from wetting too much, I use Tena Classic, it’s my other fav because it has a nice close fit.
If you’re concerned about sagging, a pair of compression shorts really helps, especially if you are doing some rigorous activity. Or, if you think you may wet more than a single time or more than some leaking, pull a pair of cotton boxer briefs over the absorbent garment and then a pair of PUL pants. This will help with leaking from push out from sitting on hard surfaces, prolonged sitting or a sudden loss of control.