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I remember before I started interacting with other ABDLs, I just thought they were dysfunctional and acted like children and had a mind of a child and as a real baby. But then I started to post on the old bravenet forum and it didn't take me long to realize they were real people and were actually normal because they still had an adult mind, went to college, are in college, drive a car, married and have kids, have a job, etc.
So when I met my ex who I call Jerry, he was this ignorant too about ABDL and I let it slide assuming he was just naive and he will change is mind once he learns they are normal people too and adults. So I tried to get him to join the old xsorbit forum ran by Winz and former Lil Vickie and Yuriek who is now Elizabeth. I also tried to show him other sources but he saw it as all shoving it in his face and would start cursing at m,e saying he didn't care and I started to realize how bigoted and hateful he is and this was not naivety, he was just hateful and a bigot because this was willful, not ignorance. This is one of the reasons why we are not together and now I don't give anyone a chance if they show any bigotry and prejudice towards ABDL because I have been there before and I will not deal with it again and get triggered about my ex because I am reliving my ex again when I see this. I will even block any ignore anyone who shows his attitude. My ex was pretty hateful about other things too not just ABDL. For one he would call homosexual faggots. Two, he said lot of special ed kids in my high school were just lazy, and three he said any kid I my high school who liked kid shows were in special ed even though I told him they were not and they were normal kids. No he was not innocent and naive because I tried to correct him and he was willful so I had already given him the benefit of the doubt and he proved me wrong. I was naive because I thought he was like me, someone who changes their mind when given more information and then they no longer have a prejudice view on something. Hateful people do not change their minds no matter what facts they are given. If someone hates Muslims, they will never change their minds about them and think they are all terrorists ignoring the fact not all of them do that and not all of them practice sharia or pick a partner for their child. That is what a bigot is. I am not saying it's impossible for someone to stop being a bigot.
But anyway the topic is having the wrong perception of ABDL despite being into it yourself and then learning how wrong you were about it.
So when I met my ex who I call Jerry, he was this ignorant too about ABDL and I let it slide assuming he was just naive and he will change is mind once he learns they are normal people too and adults. So I tried to get him to join the old xsorbit forum ran by Winz and former Lil Vickie and Yuriek who is now Elizabeth. I also tried to show him other sources but he saw it as all shoving it in his face and would start cursing at m,e saying he didn't care and I started to realize how bigoted and hateful he is and this was not naivety, he was just hateful and a bigot because this was willful, not ignorance. This is one of the reasons why we are not together and now I don't give anyone a chance if they show any bigotry and prejudice towards ABDL because I have been there before and I will not deal with it again and get triggered about my ex because I am reliving my ex again when I see this. I will even block any ignore anyone who shows his attitude. My ex was pretty hateful about other things too not just ABDL. For one he would call homosexual faggots. Two, he said lot of special ed kids in my high school were just lazy, and three he said any kid I my high school who liked kid shows were in special ed even though I told him they were not and they were normal kids. No he was not innocent and naive because I tried to correct him and he was willful so I had already given him the benefit of the doubt and he proved me wrong. I was naive because I thought he was like me, someone who changes their mind when given more information and then they no longer have a prejudice view on something. Hateful people do not change their minds no matter what facts they are given. If someone hates Muslims, they will never change their minds about them and think they are all terrorists ignoring the fact not all of them do that and not all of them practice sharia or pick a partner for their child. That is what a bigot is. I am not saying it's impossible for someone to stop being a bigot.
But anyway the topic is having the wrong perception of ABDL despite being into it yourself and then learning how wrong you were about it.