I've just been thinking, (I know, dangerous!!!), about the recent rash of departures, and honestly, I can understand it to some degree. I myself have considered it over the last few weeks, for several reasons, but especially since it seems that the rep system has degraded to the point it's virtually useless. I've had a couple of issues with it myself, and have remained quiet about it until a few days ago, when I mentioned something in private to the admins. I've yet to see a response, even though it's been viewed 8 times now. I realize that they have their hands full with this site, but if 8 people can look at my question, why can't at least one of them send me an answer, even if it's just to say go screw yourself. I know we're not supposed to bring up anything to do with the rep system, and in particular, not to complain about it, right or wrong, so I'm probably going to get reprimanded for this.
I know I'm not a great member that contributes wonderful threads or ideas, and I'm also older than most people here, so it's not like I actually fit in anyway, though I've tried to. So I've been really thinking if it's worth my time to even bother with it anymore. My goal when I came here was to try to find other people that have the same problems as I do, so we can share ideas and solutions, and maybe this was the wrong place to look for them. As some may know by now, unlike most here, I'm truly incontinent, both bladder and bowels. I thought, (perhaps incorrectly), that this site might be one that I could meet and talk to others that share this problem, and can discuss intelligently, solutions to some of the everyday problems we face. I have met some great people here, even some that share this horrible problem. For that, I'm grateful.
So in closing, I guess what I'm trying to say is, I'll probably be posting less, and maybe even visiting less, if I don't just bow out completely. Right now, I don't see any reason why I shouldn't, but I keep hoping things might change. My contributions here don't amount to much anyway, and maybe my goals can be better achieved on an actual incontinence site, instead of a diaper lovers site.
I don't want this to sound like just another disgruntled members ranting, but I'm sure it will be viewed that way anyhow. Sorry about that. I just wanted to bring this to light and get it off my chest.