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I know this really isn't a big deal here. But on Friday I stayed the night at a friend's place and while there I told him about my bedwetting and diapers...but NOT that I'm a DL. I figured I'd just leave it with me having night issues and wearing diapers for it.
He really didn't care, wasn't judgemental and even kind of applauded me for taking the steps to wear protection. So this is actually good news!
For the last few months, since we met, we've been hanging out A LOT and had countless late nights but I've never stayed the night, despite him urging me to, and being like "dude...just crash here" but I never have and always made an excuse. I've driven home from his place drunk more times than I should have.
Well...no more! On Friday we got to having one of those "bro talks" guys have when they're pretty drunk and I ended up admitting to him my bedwetting and that being why I've never crashed at his place before. Not an issue at all. He was like "at least you do something about it" So I went to my car, got a diaper and put it on. That was that. We stayed up a while more just shooting the shit until we fell asleep. Nothing more was said about it.
So now, I can hang out with him as often as I like and not have to worry about anything...whether it be driving when I shouldn't or having an accident or on his furniture.
As an adult with this issue, I've done my share of sneaking around and hiding it. But I've reached a point where I'm just tired of doing that, especially with people who I hang out with a lot and maybe spend nights around.
I dunno. Sorry about the rant. Its just a huge load off to have a friend I don't have to hide around. Like I said...I've done enough hiding. I'm done being ashamed of my night issue.
He really didn't care, wasn't judgemental and even kind of applauded me for taking the steps to wear protection. So this is actually good news!
For the last few months, since we met, we've been hanging out A LOT and had countless late nights but I've never stayed the night, despite him urging me to, and being like "dude...just crash here" but I never have and always made an excuse. I've driven home from his place drunk more times than I should have.
Well...no more! On Friday we got to having one of those "bro talks" guys have when they're pretty drunk and I ended up admitting to him my bedwetting and that being why I've never crashed at his place before. Not an issue at all. He was like "at least you do something about it" So I went to my car, got a diaper and put it on. That was that. We stayed up a while more just shooting the shit until we fell asleep. Nothing more was said about it.
So now, I can hang out with him as often as I like and not have to worry about anything...whether it be driving when I shouldn't or having an accident or on his furniture.
As an adult with this issue, I've done my share of sneaking around and hiding it. But I've reached a point where I'm just tired of doing that, especially with people who I hang out with a lot and maybe spend nights around.
I dunno. Sorry about the rant. Its just a huge load off to have a friend I don't have to hide around. Like I said...I've done enough hiding. I'm done being ashamed of my night issue.