SallyJayy
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- Role
- Diaper Lover
- Carer
My boyfriend of 5 years now told me about his abdl side less than 2 years ago.At first im not gonna lie I was in shock and very upset about the fact that I was lied to and I felt like I didn't even know him..We didn't speak for about 6 months.I hated him every single day I couldn't stand to look at him I was being really closed minded and mean.I guess I was scared of what it would do to the relationship. I didn't want to argue with him he was my best friend of 5 years before we had even got together. I sat thinking everyday for a month and forgave him because I went on this site a did some digging and realized it wasn't as bad as I was making it seem.I realized that it wasn't so easy for him to tell me in the first place and I just made it harder for him to accept himself.I forgave him and apologized for being mean and not accepting him for who he was.After that for like another 3-4 months we talked about him being an abdl and what it was like and what he enjoyed about it,How it made him feel.Apparently he would wear in front of me and I had no idea.Eventually I accepted him for what he enjoyed doing I mean he wasn't hurting anyone and it was making him happy.My heart filled with joy knowing that he could be himself in front of me without being judged.I saw how happy it made him that I actually tried one on and enjoyed it even though months ago I was actually bothered by the subject.I wear diapers with him on occasion but im more into being the role of his mommy.But from coming from a person that was very close minded before I guess the answer to your question all depends on the person..I was willing to try it and at first I wanted nothing to do with diapers now im all for it,It was a good experience it actually brought us closer as friends and a couple.