I love wearing a dry diaper. I usually wear it at night, take it off for the day and put it back on in the afternoon. When I need to pee in the evening before shower I go to bathroom, lie down on a bath rug and let go. I try not to poo but sometimes I have an accident. My sphincters kind of relax simultaneously against my will, I lose control of my bowels when I pee and other way round. I don’t dare to use my diaper outside bathroom, I want to keep the rule ”peeing&pooping happens in bathroom only” so accidents in my boxers are less likely. At least I think it works like that.