RedStripeLvr
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Ehorton said:Thanks so much. Hearing that the feelings I’m having are so called normal makes it a little bit easier. I don’t really know where to start some days. The feelings vary all the time from denial of the facts to accepting and everywhere between.
You are definitely not alone in this. I could have written your above quote. I found that the ups and downs were exceedingly frustrating. Things would seem to start improving, then the bottom would fall out. The roller coaster was driving me crazy. Once I accepted that I was going to be in diapers the rest of my life, it was like a weight off my shoulders. If my situation gets better, so be it, but I'm not holding out hope for it. I still have days/times when I get frustrated and wish things were different, but that's where groups like this come in. It's great to know we are not alone, and that many others have the same feelings, concerns. mental and emotional struggles as we do. We are also blessed to have supportive spouses - I've read many posts about spouses who weren't. Hang in there, E!