Thanks think it will be sooner rather than later tbh I ended up with urosepsis last time I had trouble which wasn't fun. I felt very much alone when it started happening 4 yrs ago, it just started out the blue at night first and then crept into my days prior to that I used to be like a camel and could go without bathroom breaks for around 8 - 12 hrs so the doctors think that's where it all began and slowly my bladder began to loose grip and start spurting. Your right it's nice to find someone who is experiencing the same as I felt so alone there's plenty of things on stress and OAB but not much on neurogenic, I learnt to cope in the end and accept it, quicker that happens the better life is and as my wife always says it's not the worst that could happen.