Seanpstillwagon said:
Its ok to like diapers, olny we think its weird
Don't get too hung up on "weird." "Weird" isn't "bad." I think sometimes, in our lonely quests for self-acceptance, we get lost in the woods of denial. But let's face it: We
are weird, diapers
are not "just a type of underwear," and there
are perfectly simple reasons why most people find diaper fetishes disturbing. You don't have to (nor should you!)
agree with those people, but knowing where they come from and why they feel that way is advantageous. Looking at them as thoughtless, closed-minded, actively malicious people just leads to misery. After all, we're only a handful of diaper-wizards in a veritable ocean of muggles. To a great extent, happiness comes from knowing one's place in the Big Picture and being able to reason about it.
Seanpstillwagon said:
its hard to fing females who actually like diapers
Although some contend that the ABDL universe if full of female "dark matter" that's too shy to present itself, I'm of the opinion that, sadly, the very apparent dearth of female users on sites like ADISC
is, in fact, a reflection of reality. Although I can't blame any straight males for keeping their eyes peeled for prospective ABDL mates, I think it's important for them not to dismiss the idea of converting non-believers, or at least signing peace treaties with them.