BabyAshie
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My 6 year old sister found my little stuff and is threatening to tell my parents......... Idk what to do........ I'm really scared.....
Scaramouche said:She's 6. Either bribe her or if she tells your parents tell them she's making it up. Just make sure you hide the stuff.
BabyAshie said:My 6 year old sister found my little stuff and is threatening to tell my parents......... Idk what to do........ I'm really scared.....
Onesieman said:Maybe I have an answer, just respond to these questions:
On a scale of 1-10, how understanding are your parents. 1 being "they don't care because you're an adult." 10 being "you are so screwed."
Are you disabled?
How much of your stuff did she find? Just your diapers or more than that?
Before responding, talk to your sister about this and try to make her understand. If she caves into you, then tell her to keep it a secret.
BabyAshie said:My 6 year old sister found my little stuff and is threatening to tell my parents......... Idk what to do........ I'm really scared.....
BabyAshie said:At a 10, and no I'm not. :/
BabyAshie said:My 6 year old sister found my little stuff and is threatening to tell my parents......... Idk what to do........ I'm really scared.....
Calico said:Dude, she is six. Hide all your AB things and deny and who is going to believe a six year old? Lot of six year olds lie and exaggerate because they don't know any better. I don't take my son seriously when he tells me things because of it. If a six year old tells you things that are serious like if they came home from school and said a boy in their class stabbed another classmate and they had to go to the hospital, don't panic, check with the teacher first to be sure it's true. Also if your kid didn't sound concerned or scared, I wouldn't take it too seriously. That is what I do with my son. So I think you will be fine.
Starrunner said:I'm curious as to how she found them. How did she get to see these items? Were they out in the open where she had a clear view or did she just get a glimpse of them through the doorway? Far be it from me to suggest manipulating a six year old, but perhaps it's possible to convince her she only thought she saw diapers, when it was actually something else.
BabyAshie said:My parents would belive her because they know I like diapers. :/ And they're not accepting AT ALL so...
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Well with HOW was she straight up went through one of my bags and I freaked out and she saw them. :/
Slomo said:Well, based on what little you've said, it sounds like your parents already know you like diapers. Except, you have never told them about it all. Which means they are operating under a bunch of misconceptions to begin with.
It sounds like it's time to sit down with your parents and actually explain what abdl really is. Be an adult about it, but talk to them calmy and thuroughly. Let them know you're an adult now, and they no longer have the right to choose what kind of "underwear" you choose to wear. Explaing the compulsory love part, as well as the stress and felling of hatred you get over being denied them. And everything else that comes with it too.
BabyAshie said:That would be great. If they would listen to me. They're the type of people who don't have time for what other people say and they make fun of me for it and such. They know about the diapers but not the little stuff. Plus they'd tell the whole family.
Slomo said:It's sad to hear that. My father was the same way, and at 18 I effectively disowned him. At 41 I haven't seen him since, and I'm better for it.
If your parents ever do start giving you a difficult time about your need for diapers, just let them know that's the direction they are risking if they continue to alienate you as an adult. In the mean time, start making plans to move out in to your own place.
BabyAshie said:Tbh I really just don't have the guts to stand up to them... so I wanna write my feelings down as a letter of acceptance of sorts for if they find out, and if they just can't... I may feel crushed but the only reason I'd return home is if I want to see my sister.