Disclaimer up front: It's entirely possible I'm misreading some stuff. if so, please let me know.
I've been reading many of the posts, including the commandments, and it seems that there's a big drive on this board to hide what we do from the rest of the world. Why?
Is it really rude to the rest of the world to "impose" your diaper on them by not hiding it? (If I told someone around here that gays should not hold hands in public, I know I'd be in trouble) It's one thing to smell up the joint, or to try and get your rocks off using other people, but I don't see the problem with just going about life, and not worrying to hide it from people. If they see, then they'll know someone has diapers. If you're generally polite, and not acting like a fool, I would think this would be GOOD for the dl community, not bad for it.
Am I missing something important?
Am I misreading the material I've read thus far?
Thanks for helping me understand.