I know that there are AB events you can go to, but usually you have to be 18 or 21+. Ive heard of TOMKAT which is a kind week of camping and its only AB/DLs
there are tons of AB/Dl events and conventions if you know where to look. I recomend just googling it and finding something near you and that interests you
But all that is only if your comfortable doing that with a bunch of stangers. But it is a good way to make friends!