The Diaper Lover's Dilemma

I suspect the true numbers are known but too valuable to share - google and pornhub absolutely MUST know (probably with amazing accuracy + granularity) the true data on human sexuality, kinks, behaviours, etc (rather than answers given on surveys or small scale studies) and I bet it's fascinating.

If amy of it's published, even in part, somewhere I'd love to see it.

RubberJin said:

I suspect the true numbers are known but too valuable to share - google and pornhub absolutely MUST know (probably with amazing accuracy + granularity) the true data on human sexuality, kinks, behaviours, etc (rather than answers given on surveys or small scale studies) and I bet it's fascinating.

If amy of it's published, even in part, somewhere I'd love to see it.

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Considering how we're always seeing how someone or other is selling user data... I bet they do also. And I bet they get a lot for it.

Sorry I'm late, I was laid up....

Reading back, yeah no worries. Diapers are made to handle shit storms. And they happen around here all the time.

Though I do believe it would be awesome to have an abdl parade float. A tasteful one that is.

irnub said:

This happened to me with both diapers and furry. In both instances it set back my self acceptance by years. I'm an otherwise normal (as much as that means anything in my line of work) young professional that generally has my life together, and seeing the total dumpster fire that is the furry fandom and most abdl boards really made me question if I actually was one of them. It took me an embarrassingly long time to internalize that having a fetish in common with someone is about the same as having the same hair color or the same birthday, and therefore doesn't mean I'll have the same anything else.

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I wish I understood this sooner as well. It's one of the things that worries me about our media exposure. Will kids without context assume that this is the definition of being an ABDL? I sorted myself out but it took time. I wonder hope the kids coming up can work it out for themselves quickly, particularly since there aren't good resources for them to talk to others.

To me there are more similarities between the DL community than differences. I don't feel they are to be envied in any way. I imagine that most of them have gone through difficult self discoveries and maybe depending on the circumstances it could be a whole lot harder for them as far as persecution. I hear uninformed individuals making rude comments about gays all the time, but I've never heard any comments about prejudice against diaper wearing. So in my opinion I am actually benefiting from the fact that there aren't any parades for ABDL. Most people don't have it on their radar to condemn it or accept it.

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I don't need to tell people I wear a diaper. I don't see anyone telling others what kind of bra they wear or panties or what type of underwear they wear. And lot of people don't care if you wear them. They will just think it's medical. I would rather have diapers be less stigmatized. I think people are working on it because thousands of people are incontinent and have bladder leakage and people are even wearing them for practical use eg. Times Square for the New Years, waiting in long lines for hours, traveling on plane, truckers, astronauts, and some people wear them on their job due to lack of potty break.

And if I have to change my diaper, I say I am using the restroom and ask where the restroom is. But I think I know what ABDLs mean by they want ABDL to be accepted. They don't want the fetish to be judged and don't want to be threatened to be kicked out by their own family members or be rejected because they wear a diaper when dating, or threatened by their parents to not have their school tuition paid for unless they quit wearing diapers. Yes that sucks and it sucks to not wear a diaper because your partner won't accept it or your family. Also I have heard of people losing their jobs about being ABDL because they would be discovered online by someone who knows them in real life. Baby Ella lost her daycare job after appearing on the secret lives of Women about her ABDL lifestyle and it was only one parent that saw the show and was threatening the daycare to pull her kid out and telling the other parents about it so the daycare had to let her go just to save their business. That is what she told me and she knew this was a possibility it can happen so she took the risk and accepted it when it happened. ABjane also took her blog down and went private because she decided to go back to school and I think she is training to be a counselor as I saw on Twitter. I am still paranoid about my life which is why I won't show my face in my photos in my blog or on Twitter and the fact there are people out there who are opposed to parents wearing diapers 24/7 without incontinence including other ABDLs so I sure don't want social workers on my door step.

"Trumps regime" hasn't kept me from doing anything I like. You'd be best served keeping your politics to yourself. There are other forums for that.

I know, no one who is abdl in real life, and I never talk about it in real life. Although there is some my friends that knows my dl fetish, but well we never really talked about it. It would be great to found someone in real life that I know of, but I don't want to be the one who told them first, that's the problem I guess.

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Rockhound said:

"Trumps regime" hasn't kept me from doing anything I like. You'd be best served keeping your politics to yourself. There are other forums for that.

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You'd best not be telling other people what to post.

No diaper but I did have a genuine #2 accident earlier.

As in all cases, I thought of the times I fantasized about such an accident and how the fantasy never measures up to the reality.

I only share this detail to reinforce what I was getting at in the beginning of the thread. If an actual accident is this inconvenient, I can only imagine how it must be for someone who lives with it all their life.