ozziebee
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- Diaper Lover
- Incontinent
How can I absolutely fill an Abena XL4 overnight, and not know when I'm doing it? This morning, my pad weight was 1130ml. I remember three wettings last night (sadly one about 5 minutes after changing) and this morning, but those combined would not have made 1130ml.
I can't keep a nappy dry more than 5 to 10 minutes after changing.
And tonight, just now, I was changing into my night nappy, and felt a little dribble...
I am really confused (and a bit frustrated) about my situation - emotional me says I want to keep my continence if I can, analytical me throws up all the evidence I'm seeing to date and concludes keeping continence is wishful thinking. But then analytical me looks to the future, and is really quite scared of what this all means, and the implications on work, finances, social life, and hobbies.
I know, based on what I am seeing, that that decision point to go 24/7 is close, though in a way I already am - I wear pullups to work, and nappies everywhere else, unless I'm going out for extended visits. The decision is whether to drop the pullups, and wear nappies 24/7.
I can't keep a nappy dry more than 5 to 10 minutes after changing.
And tonight, just now, I was changing into my night nappy, and felt a little dribble...
I am really confused (and a bit frustrated) about my situation - emotional me says I want to keep my continence if I can, analytical me throws up all the evidence I'm seeing to date and concludes keeping continence is wishful thinking. But then analytical me looks to the future, and is really quite scared of what this all means, and the implications on work, finances, social life, and hobbies.
I know, based on what I am seeing, that that decision point to go 24/7 is close, though in a way I already am - I wear pullups to work, and nappies everywhere else, unless I'm going out for extended visits. The decision is whether to drop the pullups, and wear nappies 24/7.