As a DL with incontinence, I find this site very supportive and troll free. It is somewhat hard to come to terms with the dichotomy of being a DL and disabled, but this site makes me feel ok. Thank you staff, and members for making such a unique and taboo-reducing site. Diapers are really no different than glasses or a crutch. It is confronting the elephant in the room without shame. Probably most here just like diapers, but for those of us who are incon, and come to like diapers, this site actually goes a long way towards reducing stigma. As an incontInent person, I actually value the ABDL community, and all the insights. I love you guys, stay strong, and take comfort, we live in a golden age.