If given a choice

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Sgdlboy

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Im a DL and sometimes still struggling to accept who i am and although i know its not wrong and does not hurt anyone by me wearing diapers but if given a choice would any of you be a AB/DL?

For me personally IF i can choose i will choose NOT to be a DL. I mean there are so many things out there for me to like such as (anything but diapers) etc but unfortunately im into diapers.

Its like i feel sometimes why can't i be a normal person.
 
You ARE normal. You're just a normal person who has an interest in diapers. There are WAY more people into this than you might think. Liking diapers, baby things and even using diapers is OK. I mean after all, who decides what's OK for a person? You do. Your diaper interests don't change your values, who you are and how you act in public (unless YOU choose to "act out"). I've become more tolerant of more "different" types of people since I've come to terms with my ABDL side. It's OK to be how you are, who you are. If you're happy & healthy then there are more important things in life to fret about.
 
There are lots of things people do that they question themselves.
For me being a DL isn't that big of deal to me, I have seen so many people I thought were "normal" that turned out to be closet drug users, addicted to porn, alcoholics, into women's garments, stealing things for fun ect... I perfectly fine with how I am, I'm an honest, fun, loving person that lives life with a purpose and tries real hard to help other people and make them smile.
 
I've always said this about this scenario. As long as we're assuming wishes come true, I'd wish for a more tolerant society where my being ABDL doesn't raise any eyebrows or cause any issues. Why wish away something nice from your life?
 
I would give up my DL side in a heartbeat. Then I wouldn't have to worry about my wife being disgusted anymore. I know many are saying "you have to accept yourself and be comfortable with who you are." That's true, but just because you have accepted yourself doesn't mean it's bad to want to give something up. My son has type 1 diabetes. He has accepted that its part of him. However, he would give it up if he could in a heartbeat. Same thing with a parapalegic. They accept themselves for who they are, but I'm sure none of them would say no to being able to walk again.
 
Not me, lots of things I would change about myself (some of them even feasible) but although it can be inconvenient, embarrassing, expensive and socially excluding I don't understand why everyone doesn't love nappies.
 
I doubt I would pick it if I wasn't interested but since I am, it's wonderful! I spent a lot of time getting my head around it properly and I'm quite comfortable with it and myself in liking it. There are negatives to it, as with anything but I can manage it and it improves my life overall. I've made great friends, traveled to places I wouldn't have otherwise, and it helped me with problems I had with intimacy. Make it good and it's good.
 
And this question comes back again, still I'd walk away without a seconds thought, lifes complicated enough
 
Rather folks like diapers and not dope.
 
I'd say yes, I'm the same as the op, I'm an DL but would rather not be, I think the issue for me is it's a replacement for a relationship. When I was in one, I don't recall thinking about nappies.
 
When I was younger, I would have gladly not had the desires to wear or use diapers, but as I've gotten older, I've learned to enjoy them. When I was young, I thought I must be crazy wanting to be in diapers. It didn't go with how I saw myself. I weight lifted, enjoyed playing sports and got in my share of fights. Feeling like a baby conflicted with who I thought I should be. But as I got older, I realized I was a lot of different people with many different faces.

I've always been a musician and I've always cared about others. I've raced cars on the track, I'm married, a father and now a grandfather. Diapers are just a part of who I am and when I wear a diaper, it gives me a lot of pleasure, something I see no reason for denying myself.
 
This is a hard question for me, as a teen I would have loved to give up the DL part, It's highly probable I would be in for IC reasons but if I had that one wish if I could change something I would not use it on the DL thing.
 
PaddedInPuyallup said:
I would give up my DL side in a heartbeat. Then I wouldn't have to worry about my wife being disgusted anymore.
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I completely agree with Padded on this. I can't stop desiring what I desire, and I enjoy diapers immensely. But if I could flip a switch and no longer have these desires? In a heartbeat. The strain it has caused in my marriage, the secrecy, the deception--I would love to stop it all.

But a fetish--or compulsion, if you prefer--is a tricky thing. NOT scratching that itch feels bad, so it's hard for many of us to imagine what not doing it would feel like. So we continue to scratch and enjoy it, no matter what damage it's causing in other parts of our lives. But what if you could make the itch simply disappear? Whose life wouldn't be simplified by that?

-RMS
 
Yes, I can definitely agree with the thoughts above that given the choice as a young person I most definitely would not want to be a DL. I'm very understanding of the tremendous burden so many of you went through.

I am a bit different in that I was so "strait-laced" and socially conservative when I was young, that it was easy for me to repress my peee fetish and not act any of these desires. And, as I got older it became harder for me to repress these desires leading to where I am now.

I finally mustered up the courage to buy my first adult diapers at age 42. With that "cat out of the bag", I've progressed to pretty much full time diaper user. Overall, I enjoy my new "life style", accept it, and so, despite the many cons, if given the choice I would choose to remain a DL!
 
As a number of us tend to find, this 'interests' grows stronger over the years no matter if we repress or embrace it. Our 'pee fetish' + the diaper connection plays out in just that way,
almost as if by genetic coding, programmed early on or at birth.

I'm always pleased to hear when the enjoyment factor is allowed more expression, acceptance and even a 'taboo' delight.
 
I would give up this "interest" if I could. I would go to great lengths if I knew I could "get rid" of this "interest" but alas I don't think it is possible. For now, I will simply embrace it.
 
I know I'm new here and all but I've always got 2 cents and I like to stick it where a quarter belongs so here goes....

I tried normal once.... once. It's boring and over rated. If we were all "normal" we'd all be the same thing. It'd be no fun at all. Don't ask "if" questions. You'll tear yourself up, instead ask how you can make life better and bigger today. Live loud and proud, make waves, cut down a tree, plant six more, stick your bubble gum in someone's hair.... don't do that, I got a little carried away, wear a diaper and go to the movies. Live life fully with what you've been given!

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