Hi Rugbycub,
welcome to the group, there are lots of various forums that you can read through and you may be able to post to a few, might i suggest you look at the rules and tips page (there's a link at the top of this page), which will give you an idea of things that can and can't be talked about also ideas for writing a slightly fuller introduction as they are important, the more you open up about other hobbies, interests, home life etc the more members will be able to see if they have anything in common with you other than being an ab/dl. That's also the way to get more responses and get to chat to other members.