Greetings everyone :big grin:
I'll try to keep this short and sweet,but I feel it necessary and important for me on my journey to accepting myself to at least write it out.
I'm 21 years old, female and a DL who is still getting comfortable with the term. I also have urge issues, and legitimately lose control of my bladder sometimes It can be confusing having bladder issues and enjoying the comfort, security, and usually sexual arousal that comes from wearing protection. Growing up my younger brother was a bedwetter and one time I got curious and put on one of his Goodnites. It was heaven and until he stopped wetting would steal one occasionally.
Going away to college and dealing with roommates, I ignored the thoughts but just recently confided in a family member about my bladder issue who has always been sweet and nurturing to me... she recommended adult "underwear" and even bought me some and had it delivered to me (I now live alone). They are just Depends Maximums but that have been really enjoyable.
I guess I'd just like to connect with some people, and know that this isn't something horrible. I am very feminine and care about my appearance, and try to keep this part of myself hidden, although sometimes do wear Poise pads and things when traveling or drinking alcohol. Will nighttime recreational use of adult pull-ups worsen my sensitive bladder?
Really not trying to attract creeps, but I really hope I can find a man one day who think this is "cute" and would maybe change me, encourage "me to go potty".. etc. My ex bf was really sweet about all this, although he didn't know about my DL interests, he'd always buy me poise pads, always stopping for me to potty, and console me when I had an accident.
I've been browsing this site for awhile. Excited I finally joined!
I'll try to keep this short and sweet,but I feel it necessary and important for me on my journey to accepting myself to at least write it out.
I'm 21 years old, female and a DL who is still getting comfortable with the term. I also have urge issues, and legitimately lose control of my bladder sometimes It can be confusing having bladder issues and enjoying the comfort, security, and usually sexual arousal that comes from wearing protection. Growing up my younger brother was a bedwetter and one time I got curious and put on one of his Goodnites. It was heaven and until he stopped wetting would steal one occasionally.
Going away to college and dealing with roommates, I ignored the thoughts but just recently confided in a family member about my bladder issue who has always been sweet and nurturing to me... she recommended adult "underwear" and even bought me some and had it delivered to me (I now live alone). They are just Depends Maximums but that have been really enjoyable.
I guess I'd just like to connect with some people, and know that this isn't something horrible. I am very feminine and care about my appearance, and try to keep this part of myself hidden, although sometimes do wear Poise pads and things when traveling or drinking alcohol. Will nighttime recreational use of adult pull-ups worsen my sensitive bladder?
Really not trying to attract creeps, but I really hope I can find a man one day who think this is "cute" and would maybe change me, encourage "me to go potty".. etc. My ex bf was really sweet about all this, although he didn't know about my DL interests, he'd always buy me poise pads, always stopping for me to potty, and console me when I had an accident.
I've been browsing this site for awhile. Excited I finally joined!