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Has anyone ever tried to tell you you were not an adult baby because you didn't have enough baby items or didn't have a nursery or didn't fit the stereotypes of an AB they see in the media? What about being told how you are not a little because you are perhaps not immature enough or not childish enough or your interests are not childish enough?
One of my online friends has been told by several ABs that he wasn't a real AB because he liked to watch sports and drama on TV and didn't like cutesy things or watch any children shows. I mean what the hell? Is there even a criteria for what defines an AB? No.
One of my ex's tried to tell me I wasn't an AB just because I didn't act baby enough and I guess I needed to be a baby 24/7 or needed a nursery or use bottles and pacifiers 24/7 to be one but he was too into stereotypes.
I guess some people get so caught up in stereotypes they try to define others and say they are not an AB. Heck I have even see a couple people here trying to accuse someone here of pretending to be DL. What? How does that even work lol? You either like diapers or you don't or you are just curious but how the hell do you pretend to be a DL if you are into diapers or just curious about them? Is there a criteria for what defines a DL? No. So anyone can put that label on themselves all they want if they are into diapers. It's not like it's a medical condition or a disorder.
One of my online friends has been told by several ABs that he wasn't a real AB because he liked to watch sports and drama on TV and didn't like cutesy things or watch any children shows. I mean what the hell? Is there even a criteria for what defines an AB? No.
One of my ex's tried to tell me I wasn't an AB just because I didn't act baby enough and I guess I needed to be a baby 24/7 or needed a nursery or use bottles and pacifiers 24/7 to be one but he was too into stereotypes.
I guess some people get so caught up in stereotypes they try to define others and say they are not an AB. Heck I have even see a couple people here trying to accuse someone here of pretending to be DL. What? How does that even work lol? You either like diapers or you don't or you are just curious but how the hell do you pretend to be a DL if you are into diapers or just curious about them? Is there a criteria for what defines a DL? No. So anyone can put that label on themselves all they want if they are into diapers. It's not like it's a medical condition or a disorder.
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