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    Quote Originally Posted by Slomo View Post
    The original is a little sticky, but the creamy leaves more of an oily residue behind. Either one, you will want to wash your hands (I find just once is enough) after applying it, and before trying to put your diaper on.

    For something even better, try looking into a prescription for "triple diaper cream" (not triple paste). It rubs in pretty good so at the most I have to wipe my hands off a little to get rid of any remaining residue. This cream is also way more effective than anything over the counter too.
    Thanks Slomo I'll have a look it, I've only ever put on cream after a accident to ease the burning (never really known much else), can you put this on or a cream on at night to last the whole night so when I do soil it will protect my skin for a bit? Just as I am such a bad sleeper (and on many meds) that when I normally wake to change it completely wakes me up and can never get back to sleep, just would like to sleep slightly longer without changing straight away if that makes sense.

  2. #12


    For -healing- a rash you want to use a cream. Use the cream first with clean skin and rub it in fully. This gets absorbed deeper into the skin to help heal damage that's already there. It will NOT last all night, but it will heal faster you after the fact.

    For -protecting- against a rash you want to use an ointment. Apply a thin coating on your skin to create a sort of barrier. This WILL last all night, but will not help you very much for healing.

    To be truly effective you need to use both methods. For you, I'd say start with just the ointment at night. When you wake up and get cleaned up, use the cream to help heal any rash damage that's been done.

  3. #13


    I don't have night accidents all the time but often enough. It can just be exhausting especially when it seems to happen when you're not expecting it. My urgency is so strong that it boarders on being painful and most of the time it wakes me up. I might make it into the bathroom 1 in 50 times. I have too much diaper on to know with any certainty if I can get them off in time without making a complete mess of the bathroom and me. I guess it's not much different than during the day but to just lay there and surrender gets tough mentally sometimes. After 20 years I'm used to it but I'm no different than anyone else. Sometimes it just gets me down. As for the Desitin question. It is zinc oxide based and offers superior skin protection against urine or stool. I use the regular paste,not the more greasy creamy blend. I don't even try to wash it off my hands. I just simply use some wet wipes and bingo, my hands are clean. I'm not really sure how anyone can sleep through a bowel release. Sure, I understand how you could because I have. But 90% of the time the urge wakes me and the next thing I know it's overpowered me and I can feel poop begin to pile up in the seat of my diapers. The relief is always welcome but the thought of what I had just done depresses me sometimes. Not all the time. I should be used to it by now and to be honest, I am. Most of the time I'm just glad the urgency is gone despite the load in my diapers. I roll back onto my side and go back to a usually restful sleep. Just had to vent I guess. A little unusual for me. I try to stay as positive as I can.

  4. #14


    im not ic nore am I an expert but couldn't you try to use laxatives to try to empty yourself before you go bed??

  5. #15


    I don't enjoy messing as with me it's usually running and sometimes can burn. I have chronic IBS so have no control. I take loperimide to try and help but its not much use to be honest.

  6. #16


    I have just nappy creamed by bum and private area. I would love a male nurse to clean me up and change my bum. You need a nice nurse to help you

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