BlubbyTheBlueWhale said:
I'm very very confused. I don't think I'm a total sissy. I just like girly diapers.But I don't know if that makes me a sissy. I'm not a fan of crossdressing (Never tried it but am open to trying it) But I don't know if liking girly diapers makes me a sissy. I also like My Little Pony and girly panties. I'm so confused please help!!!
Hello, lifelong Sissy here
To be short, you at least have tendencies that most would define as "Sissy"... No, you're not a "total sissy", although that can mean many things to different people, depending on who you ask... Just like all ABs don't embrace ALL of the same activities and stereotypes, neither do all Sissies. You're somewhere in the "sissy spectrum", but you are nowhere near what most people think of when THEY think of a "Sissy" or a "Total Sissy". By that same token, neither am I
Most people think of a "sissy" or a "total sissy" as somebody that wants to be humiliated and dominated, forced to wear the most outrageously over-the-top outfits, and usually be "forced" into some (to them) degrading sexual activities. Many, probably most Sissies fit most of those criteria, but not all do. Just because those EXACT behaviors/traits may not apply do you, doesn't mean that you aren't a sissy, too. It just means that you're not THAT kind of sissy.
I've had this discussion more than once, usually with people who AREN'T sissies, telling ME what a "sissy" is SUPPOSED to be. I just smile. Sissies are as varied as the rainbow, from somebody who just occasionally enjoys acting all girly, to somebody who wants desperately to be a Sissy C*****t F***toy F****t W****. They are both expressions of the same basic feelings, just one is a little more "extreme"...
Anybody that tries to tell you, "If you don't like/do THIS, you can't be a Sissy!", usually doesn't know what they are talking about. What they MEAN, whether they know it or not, is you don't fit THEIR definition of a "sissy".
Like I said, "sissy" is a spectrum, just like AB. just like DL. I'd say that you're on the sissy spectrum, if that's something that matters to you, but call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable.
One of my favorite movie quotes, from Last of the Mohicans with Daniel Day-Lewis is kind of appropriate here:
British Officer: You call yourself a patriot, and loyal subject to the Crown?
Hawkeye: I do not call myself subject to much at all.
I call MYSELF a "Sissy", because to me, it fits how I see myself... I couldn't care less if somebody else agrees with my self-assessment or not
Decide for yourself what fits YOU. Or, don't call yourself anything, and just do what makes you happy that harms nobody else....