Slomo said:
Really? This again. So by your reasoning any person who loves someone else strictly has a fetish. Oh, and any display or talk of that love is also strictly sexual too. Uh, or not.
I already explained to you once already why you are wrong with your definition of DL. You don't seem to understand that just because the word lover in in the dang term doesn't mean that is what it strictly means. If you look up the defintion anywhere on the net you are going to come across the word fetish whether you like it or not. I am sorry, but that is just the reality of the situation. Seriously, end of story.
Ok, lets sum it up again for you. Diaper fetishes are a fetish. DL is diaper love, and AB is adult baby.
No ... you are wrong. Look it up anywhere on the net and you will see diaper lover is associated with being a fetish. This isn't according to me, this is according to society. That is how the word is used. That is how it's viewed. Just because you don't want it to be that way, doesn't actually change it.
Honestly, I can't beleive you don't understand this. I want you to do a little exercise for me which I doubt you will do, but I might as well say it to prove a point.
Go around and ask people who are not AB/DL if they know what a diaper lover is and take a tally on how many times the word fetish is used. I would be pretty curious to find out the results lol.
Although, im certain about half way through you will realize the majority of people outside of being AB/DL, will associate with it being a fetish because that is how the word is used. Understand? Do you get it yet?
Edit: Honestly, I am getting tired of having to explain to you that your use of the word isn't how society uses the word. I feel like this entire conversation is pointless till you begin to use the word in a manner that everyone uses it in, isntead of assuming your brain is an official dictionary and the sole proprietor on the definition of diaper lover.
I think it's also sad you don't seem to understand that terms don't always specifically mean what it sounds like. Do you think golden showers are made of actual gold?
Also, just because you know not all diaper lovers are into it as a fetish, do you really expect everyone outside of being AB/DL to know that? You have to learn to step in other peoples shoes. If they don't know, then they don't know. It doesn't matter what you think. They still don't know. You know what people do when they don't know? They make assumptions, and it doesn't matter what you say. Telling them you are not a pedophile isn't going to save you. This is common sense Slomo. Obviously people are going to get the wrong impression, and you know what ... they have every right to be woried. What is a grown man doing playing with underage kids to begin with? Why does it have to be anyone below the age of 18?
I mean seriously, common dude. I wouldn't even be caught dead playing hide and seek with anyone underage, let alone role playing about diapers and shit.