AcePrincess said:
I'm new to this community and curious.
Thought I would kill two birds with one stone and say welcome to the community as well as answer your thread. Hope you do not mind.
Firstly it is not unusual to be asexual and have a little side. Your introduction mentions that you are looking for a father figure and that is definitely possible in this community and beyond. You also mention that you are not into diapers and that is fine as well because not all little's regress all the way to babyhood. Some may regress to being in a teenage state or younger. It takes all sorts and your preference is just that, your preference. However you see yourself on the inside is what you should trust and you should always feel comfortable being yourself. That being said many on this particular website are into diapers as well as being little, so as you work your way through you will see lots of mentions of diapers and baby things.
In regards to your post here, I am probably looking at things from a slightly different perspective in that I am a mother to my little's and neither a father figure or little myself. But I feel I would like to give some of my experiences because being a parent is important to me. What makes this community so amazing is all the different types of people that frequent it. As I mentioned earlier some like to go into little space at different ages and for different reasons, some just like the diaper aspect, some like the role play aspect, others just simply like to indulge the escapism from the adult world. But the one thing that brings us all together in some loose way is that we all play a part on the spectrum and get from it what we need.
For me personally I started out as a diaper lover, I never really had much of a little side although I did dabble in my early years of being in this scene. Swiftly coming up to the present day I have evolved my desires to wanting to take charge and play as a mother. This came through many years of building self acceptance and experiencing play with many different people. I do not pretend to be an expert but I now find myself being very confident and competent at providing care to little's across the spectrum. My personal favourite are bratty sissies but most of my time is spent being mother to those who lean more towards the adult baby side of things.
One thing I have noticed is that most people fall into two camps. The first group is those that are in a loving relationship and both parties have adapted and reconciled their needs. There is compromise on both sides and the relationship is fruitful. For the most part both live in the adult world and indulge the age-play when it suits them. The other group is more of a part time playtime where the parties involved meet especially to have age-play fun. This is where I sit, I do not have a steady partner, and do not really want one at the moment. I currently play with two individuals and only meet them as their mother to age-play. Of course there will be many exceptions to the rule but I feel confident in distinguishing what I have learned and experienced on my journey so far.
I look forward to getting to know you better and listening to your input as you find out all about yourself.