Sapphyre, you and I have done a number of messages back and forth. Honestly, I can see your views on people, and I hope that some of the rest of us are able to temper that a bit. It's hard to not take the view that everyone is going to hurt you or screw you over when that's the only experience you've had in your life. Spend multiple decades getting beat down by those who are supposed to love and care for you, and you think that everyone is that way.
I think a lot of what goes on with several people on here is that we realize we are human, we do have our own views on the world, and our own experiences. Those people who see that are willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, and see past what you might consider 'mean'. You'll probably be truly surprised when you realize that you're really not doing any damage with us, that we'll still accept you and want you as a friend.