I told my wife when she was my fiancée. She was compassionate but not permissive at the time. I went to lots of years of therapy to get rid of it to no avail. Eventually after so much hard work, she realized (me too) that it wasn't going away and so came to accept it.
She isn't into it herself at all but is a good sport about it and advocates for me to keep it in balance.
Other than her I told my best friend and he also was supportive and compassionate about it. He acts like its no big deal at all.
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