I'm not too sure how to start this off but I could sure use some help/words of advise. My boyfriend came out to me about this side of him last year and truth be told it really has made us stronger. And although I am not an ABDL myself, he introduced to me to the ABDL world and I've become very accepting of it. In fact, I love being his mommy. He means the world to me and the love we share can't be compared to anything else in this world. I find happiness taking care of him and seeing him happy and at ease when he falls into little mode. I am very accepting of this side of him and partake often myself. He has ABDL friends of his own and I'm happy that he found people to relate to. But there's one big problem for me that I can't seem to get past....
Amongst those friends he has a "big brother". I'm happy to change my boyfriend's nappy and put him in one before bed. But it bothers me tremendously that whenever him and his "big brother" hang out, his BB will change his diaper. My boyfriend has made it very clear to me that it is not a sexual thing and I understand that fact. But I truly just cannot get past the fact that someone else changes his diaper other than me. I feel like it's very personal and I really cannot be comfortable with anyone else doing it for him.
I don't want to tell him to stop hanging out with his ABDL friends, I just don't want anyone else to change him. I truly don't know how to feel about this. I love him more than anything but I need help with this.