So I have been talking to a friend and she wants to move out of her parents (as do I). So we have been planning, found a place but it's not going to be ready for six months, give or take a month. The thing I'm worried about is it's a small place small bedrooms etc. I kind of know she's going to find out about my abdl side. So I'm going thru the pros and cons of telling her before moving in. I'm just still on the fence, I've been wanting to tell her for awhile, but haven't gotten up the nerve. There's a very slim chance that she's not going to find out like 10-20%.
I just want to hear what you guys would do?