AngelicaPickles
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is anther well anther ab YouTuber you guys watch him ill have seen few of them.
Angelic said:He's awesome! I love to watch him to get into my little space!
Angelic said:His videos, he's in little space and what he does when playing with his toys, doing silly things and talking like he is a 2 a half - 3 year old makes me feel little. Watch one of his videos and you will find out!
Buhha said:is anther well anther ab YouTuber you guys watch him ill have seen few of them.
Buhha said:i do it don't help me
Angelic said:Maybe you feel more like a baby than a toddler
you could be rightsisi said:
You may not need triggers. I don't. It is a mind set for a lot of people and for some of us we just are.
It like see some caws and needing to say moo! If you are a Little you understand if you are a age player. Well never mine.
Hee, hee
tickles51 said:I've always believed that AB/DL was private behavior and should be practiced in private. I know, that's my choice. But I hate seeing the community get this kind of public exposure. I believe that it holds the community up to public ridicule.
tickles51 said:And media exposure is even worse since they make their money sensationalizing everything. I think that our media perception is embarrassing because they so often go after the creep factor. We even admit to ourselves that this is weird.
tickles51 said:So anyway, is the idea here that this kind of exposure fosters public acceptance? I don't think so. Of course there will be supporters but I'm talking about society as a whole. I don't believe that the public will ever consider this acceptable behavior no matter how well it's presented.
tickles51 said:So sure, this guy is funny, cute, but is he really helping the community? No, he's hurting the community because public contempt and ridicule makes it more difficult for the rest of us to accept ourselves.
MommyandMattling said:hey tickles =D! I dont think your about to face any sort of backlash and be burned at the stake as a troglodyte.
I can understand how you would shy away from public exposure as a personal choice. the downside of community public exposure (I.E. Youtube personalities) is that all of the flak that they get, applies to all of us.
After having lived a life for over a half century, and dealing with insecurities for most of your life (Im assuming, i apply the insecurities to most abs..forgive me if i assume wrong).
seeing that public backlash against youtube personalities (and in truth the community as a whole) must be pretty upsetting, its the kind of attitude you actively try to avoid in life.
its the very thing most of us fear for a reaction. seeing these comments in a way must vindicate and attack any sense of acceptance you have managed to build up over the years.
it does allow for a target for ridicule, in truth its nothing new. most people have been in conversations where suddenly abdlism is brought up by non abdls, and theres the remarks and ridicule that come, and we play along in the conversation or just dont say anything.
sound familiar?
yes, to be fair its on a different scale. these youtube personalities are helping others avoid the feelings of isolation and shame that many abdls go through. I do not watch them myself, but i have nothing against them.
these youtube personalities are the ones who are able to normalize eventual and desensitize the public so that instead of 20 years from now, on dateline we see an investigation into the secret world of masons or odd fellows instead of an investigation into the secret and exclusive community of abdl.
I dont know how many programs or internet "articles" that lambast and sensationalize individuals that expose themselves to the media can really be made..10 years from now are we really still going to be that fascinating?
i have read a few articles (I wish i could find them and repost them) that actually try to dig deeper into this weird behavior, the interviews start off for shock value, but to be honest they devolve into an actual unbiased examination
into what people acctually get out of this life style.
I dont care what they make their money on. but when abdl is not as unique, its not going to be the bills as much. I dont think our culture finds cross dressing as sensational as it was back in the 50
s-80s even the 90s. maybe thats the future of alternative lifestyles.
I have been out in about in nappies and short alls with a snap crotch, a very babyish design actually, ive been to college fairs, cafes, down main streets I cant say ive ever felt that someone was making fun of me or even really felt anyone staring at me. I cant say i did not feel accepted. THAT SAID, there are standards that one must hold themselves too.
there will always be standards of behavior that people should follow regardless of their attire. I dont think the youtube generation is so much pushing for "equal rights" and the freedom to wander around the local shopping plaza in just a nappy and a t shirt, as to help future abdls no face the sea of guilt and trouble with "coming to terms" that so many others already do.
sensational public exposure does lead to acceptance. look at trump. (sorry. could not resist.)
we may well have different ideas of what types of behavior we are talking about being accepted.
I personally would never feel comfortable walking around in just a diaper, or playing with children. I do not feel comfortable and i have no desire too. however i would play with children in a non abdl setting.
yes, yes he is helping the community. the evidence? ask your fellow abs. do they enjoy seeing someone who echos their interests? do they feel comforted by someone else being brave enough to post their videos? for the most part i would say yes.
(you aside, obviously =P)
The guilt and societal damage may be embedded to deep in you for it to make you feel better, the comments im sure only vindicate your beliefs that you have had most of your life.
but the next generation of abs do not have to be resigned to the same fate.
Cheers!
Yes, I take your point and there is evidence that these videos are well received in the ABDL community. I understand that just seeing someone who's like you can make you more accepting of yourself. But the public response, at lease for me, has the opposite effect. The world doesn't need to know about this. I realize that most of the haters on YouTube are just trolls, but putting them aside, this community still has a very negative public image, perpetuated by people like blond boy and binky princess. Because of the 'YouTube effect', the more outrageous something is, the more views it gets so the more outrageous it becomes.MommyandMattling said:these youtube personalities are helping others avoid the feelings of isolation and shame that many abdls go through.
Maybe if i'm wrong and over time there's more public acceptance of this, then the comments will change to "If it makes you happy and you're not hurting anyone, then go for it." There is a spattering of these types of comments among the hate comments already.Angelic said:I just avoid the comments section or else I risk a purge!
Trevor said:How will these affect young people who are still trying to figure out what being an ABDL means to them? Will they think that this is the aspired ideal? Might it foster unrealistic expectations of openness? I don't know.
tickles51 said:the more outrageous something is, the more views it gets so the more outrageous it becomes.
Acceptance means being able to be ourselves in public, as much as possible, without pacis automatically being seen as in the same class as dildos, just because we are who we are. Notice, I didn't say, "we do what we do."tickles51 said:And what does acceptance really mean? Do you want to be able to run around the neighborhood in just your diapers? Or how about playing with real children in the park?
So sure, this guy is funny, cute, but is he really helping the community? No, he's hurting the community because public contempt and ridicule makes it more difficult for the rest of us to accept ourselves.