Back Story: I'm an 18 year old female (baby girl/mommy) and I have Androphobia (the fear of men). When I was younger; it wasn't so bad; I just felt "slightly uncomfortable" around males which was often seen as "being shy". But now, after my anxiety became worse; I'm absolutely terrified of talking to men. I used to be able to at least talk to them online and be internet friends, but now it's really scary to me. I can handle comments from men on my online work, profiles,...etc. But as far as conversations go; I just can't do it.
Now on to my situation; I was inspired by a TV show to "face my fears" since it was "best cure", so 2 days ago; I went on Omegle and typed in "abdl" for interests. I met two guys; let's call them John and Bob. John is 21 years old (daddy/baby boy) and Bob is 31 (daddy/sissy baby). I had an amazing conversation with the two of them, and I forgot about my fear whilst talking to them. I got along very well with the both of them, so when they asked for a way to stay in contact; I agreed and gave them my -abdl- social media.
I'm starting to think maybe that was rather a bad idea because my anxiety has been up the roof ever since I've talked to them. John is "moving too fast" (not in a relationship kind of way); on the first night we started talking, he was quick to call me his "baby girl" and insists I call him "daddy". He baby talks me all the time which I thought was nice, so I didn't want to upset him and so I did that and played along, and he calls me mommy sometimes, too. I just feel very uncomfortable calling him "daddy" and being called "baby girl/mommy" by someone I barely know. He also already has a "mommy/baby girl" (she's his best friend). I didn't confront him about it; I knew from his profile bio.
Bob is the one that scares me more. He proposed we be friends and he seemed like a genuinely nice guy, but his behaviour suggests he wants us to be more than that. He has said things like him wanting me to babysit him, change his diapers, dress him up like a baby girl, change his name...etc. I'm more scared of him because he's a lot older than me so I don't know what this little talk about babysitting could evolve into; I take full blame of actually replying back to those comments and playing along since I was so terrified of being paranoid, so I just wanted to be "normal". I had also promised to write him a story after he asked if I could when I told him I wrote ABDL stories (idk if that's important information).
I guess my question here is: What do I do? Do these guys seem like nice men and it's all in my head? Or do I have the right to be freaked out? Should I just block them and call it a day? Or confront them? I'm so desperate for help!