I am currently in a very tough situation with my boyfriend. A little back story, he and I have been together for a little over a year. He found out about me being a DL after a month of dating. At first he was freaked out because he had never heard of such a thing but once we talked about it he was able to understand it a little bit and said he didn't have a problem with it. For over a year now he and I have had a lot of problems in our relationship, mainly sexual problems. I have realized that I need DL to be a part of my sex life otherwise I am left somewhat unfulfilled. This has created a lot of tension between us and for the past month we have essentially been separated. It started off sleeping in different beds and now I'm staying at my parents. He is telling me that me being a DL is a problem I have but I constantly refuse to look at it that way. I told him that it is just a problem in our relationship and that we shouldn't be together because of it. I am a DL and he is not. It's not a problem that I have that needs to be fixed, it's a problem in our relationship because he is not interested in diapers, right?
There are plenty of other reasons that our relationship isn't working, mainly because I don't feel the same kind of love for him that he feels for me. But he is looking at it as I am choosing diapers over him? That is very frustrating to me because it makes me feel like I do have an addiction but if I were with another DL then this kind of thing wouldn't come up. I guess I don't need advice but I am curious to hear your thoughts or similar stories.