Greetings to all my fellow AB/DL (etc). I'll admit it, I have been a long time lurker here at ADISC. I have been a DL for many years (probably since my early teen years). I have been in a relationship now for almost 4 years - and in fact, we recently got married! My (now) wife was a little uneasy at first with my love of diapers, but she grew to understand that it is a very safe place for me. She participates as my "mommy" in my lifestyle.
Recently I have felt ashamed at being an AB/DL (okay maybe I have always felt a little shame and embarrassment). We have talked about this and she fully supports the lifestyle and has been trying to tell me not to feel shame.
I have joined ADISC to try and become part of the community, get a little bit of support, be a support for others and hopefully become fully accepting of this lifestyle I love so much.