Im sure some of you have read some of my recent posts/threads, I've quit drinking once again and hope I can stick with it this time. Anyways, she drove five hours from New Hampshire to visit with me and talk about my troubles. She is a health teacher and openly gay and married. We are fairly close in age and have more of a brother/sister relationship. While talking I felt I had to tell her and wasn't nervous because I knew she would think nothing of it. She's the third person I've told face to face.