I love the idea of having a daddy, but it also terrifies me. I have enough trouble trusting men, so making myself completely emotionally vulnerable to them is challenging.
It is also my experience that ABs and littles (of all genders) tend to outnumber Doms and caregivers. Most daddies I have met are very sex obsessed, lack healthy boudaries, and don't seem very concerned with what their little wants.
I understand some people can compartmentalize the age play and sexual aspects of their relationship, which makes a lot of sense. At the same time I don't believe in shaming people if they do get off on mixing sex and age play. So long as it's consensual and nobody is getting hurt I truly believe than anything goes, weather or not one finds it personally distasteful. Alas; I am asexual, not only in my little space, but all the time. This makes it difficult to find a partner, period, let alone one who will diaper me on occasion and treat me like his little baby doll.
That said; I am in a relationship with an other AB right now. We mostly hang out, watch cartoons, and cuddle. But since we don't have a big that means we both have to be responsible and take care of ourselves, which means we can't get totally little. I have been thinking of playing the babysitter on occasion so my girlfriend can be totally little for a while. I think I would get a vicarious thrill out of this. Plus she is just really cute and I want to spoil her.