Does anyone have any suggestions of a diaper that is similar to the discontinued Depends fitted briefs?
I am asking this, because my "go-to" diaper for wearing out in public under my clothes was the former and now discontinued Depend fitted brief. I know, I know, that it certainly wasn't the greatest at absorbancy in comparison to premium brands, but the overall style, fit, and easily availability made it a diaper that I would often choose to wear during the day. It was not too bulky so as to be noticed, but still had somewhat decent absorbancy and leak protection if I used it.
The new and so called "improved" Depends fitted briefs is a joke. They have gone backwards in everything. It has a cloth outer covering which doesn't hold anything in, only four tabs, of which easily rip off, and even the cloth backing is easily torn, rendering it useless. It might be discrete in the cloth like covering as far as sound, but if you use it, it is not discrete at all. It leaks like a sieve, and tears apart easily.
I am not incontinent, but I enjoy wearing diapers throughout the day, but I do not want to be noticed. That is what I liked about the old Depends. They truly felt like you were wearing a diaper, they were plastic, but not too thick so as to be easily noticed. They had the fitted leg gathers that helped prevent leakage from minor wettings, and six tabs so as to assure a tight and comfortable fit.
The new product is simply not something that feels as a true diaper, and it is really worthless if you actually use it.
So, I am looking for a replacement.
What other adult diapers out there are similar to Depends that offer some protection, but still feel like a baby diaper, with plastic backing, but are not too crinkly and not too bulky so as to be easily noticed if you are wearing under your clothes throughout the day?
I would really appreciate recommendations. While I have often thought I was pretty good at giving recommendations for diapers, this particular situation has me a bit stumped. While I have never been a huge proponent of Depends, I have to admit, they were always as accessible as my nearby K-mart or Walgreens store. I enjoyed wearing them as I felt I was truly wearing a diaper and felt confident that others wouldn't easily notice I was wearing and if I did use them a little bit, I would still not be noticed. Granted I couldn't use them without limitations as they simply don't stack up to premium diapers, but then that was not the intent.
Right now, my own thoughts are the XP medical absorbancy plus, but they don't have the leg gathers and are a bit more bulky.
I am not looking for a replacement premium diaper, as I have my own choices for that. It is hard to beat the Dry 24/7 and even the Aww So Cute and Teddy Bear Bambinos do an amazing job, but they aren't diapers that I would recommend if you are not wanting to be noticed. They are pretty bulky and a bit noisy.
Looking for suggestions for a diaper that is baby-like, is comfortable, discreet even if you moderately use it, and something that you can wear without being obviously noticed.