Ok here is the problem. My wife knows about my fetishes. Shareacceptable of it and occasionally let's me put a diaper on her. That's all we really do in terms of taking care of her. She doesn't hate it but can be ok with the idea.
So what do I do I post on Craig'slist looking for more. I put up a post that I'm looking to take care of someone. My question is do I dare ask my wife if I can have a friend with similar interests to take care of. It will be with a guy so I won't feel like it's cheating as much. I know cheating is cheating even in this form.
I feel bad if I go ahead and do this behind her back so there is probably my answer right there. Now we have kind of an open relationship should I ask first?
The thing once I ask the question I cannot undo it. If I asked it will lead to more problems. I'm 97percent sure she wouldn't find out. If she did our marriage Would likely be ruined. Does anyone had any experience they could share to help me out.