I would also go for Always Discreet pull-ups.
They are available in the UK and they come in 3 absorbency levels, with the first one having a lower rise (under the belly button).
I would however go for the one with maximum absorbency. It is goes a bit higher on the waist but the better absorption is worth it as you will have the possibility to have several accidents and this one holds it quite well.
There are many benefits for you:
- They are discreet, and should not be visible under tight jeans as you seem to wear some, so you can be wearing them doing your daily life.
- They are pull-ups, so they are very easy to put on, and you can pull them up and down very easily when going to the loo (for the “bigger one” for instance), something that is not easy with tape diapers.
- They have a good absorbency.
- They come in 2 sizes (M and L), so if the M size would be too small (but it goes for a waist up to 44), you can get the larger one (waist 44 - 54).
- They are very comfortable, you will feel at home in them, much better than in regular underwear
- They have a feminine touch
- They are of the Always brand. I’m telling this because you were wondering what to tell to your parents if they were discovering your nappies. Maybe you can tell them it’s for your period, that at times the normal pads are not enough. (I read some women wearing such for that purpose).
On the cons side :
- They look like grand mother underpants and the waist is quite large.
- They bulge at the crotch when wet, and I don’t know what happens with tight jeans (does it hinder good absorption or does it swell and make it hard to be hidden?).
