Ok so there is not really a problem with wanting someone to change you. Turfy does it for me all the time. However I would rather die than have my actual parents change my diapers. Not sure why any one would want that. Having an AB parent relationship and wanting them to change you is totally different than having your actual parents do it. The only time my mother ever changed me as an adult was when I was literally not able to move because I had an incision in my stomach that was a foot long and full of staples. And that was one time and she only did it because I had been in the messy diaper for 13 hours and no nurse would come change me. So yeah as much as I do not like changing my own diaper I would not ever want my parents to change my diaper.