LittleJess
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Although I'm not ready yet, I'm kind of interested in dating a guy eventually, but have no clue where to start.
As a transgender person, from what I've heard, is it gets more complicated to date, I've decided to wait until I start transitioning or at least see a gender therapist.
I'm just wondering, how does someone find a partner, I know you can't just walk into a store and buy one >.< hehe.
Or is it just something that takes time? I think I've come across a couple guys into me, in the past, but I'm not too sure, I discovered I was gay, when they grab my butt jokingly, and I enjoyed it, was a awkward situation, as someone who hasn't fully calm down sexually. I found out I was trans and gay later on in life, so I didn't really have a chance to find others, yet and am new to this.
I've been experimenting a little with my sexuality and I'm 100% certain I'm gay, and I'm also into trans-females, which is odd. is there a correct term for that, or am I gay straight in my specific case. since I'm a girl.
I've had to hide it, I've had some girls think I was gay ,and a lot of people did too, it's like they have a "gaydar" so to speak.
I'm not going to bother with online dating, as 99% of the time, It's a Nigerian scammer on the other end, or a catfish.
I'm asking for advice and tips, I'm not sure specifically if this belongs in the girls section, but since I'm trans, I think it's more appropriate here as there are other transgender people here with experience (I'm guessing)
Also.
To make it clear, so no one misunderstands. I'm looking only looking for advice, I'm not looking for anyone on adisc to date me. I'm just simply asking how would I go with dating in the real world.
As a transgender person, from what I've heard, is it gets more complicated to date, I've decided to wait until I start transitioning or at least see a gender therapist.
I'm just wondering, how does someone find a partner, I know you can't just walk into a store and buy one >.< hehe.
Or is it just something that takes time? I think I've come across a couple guys into me, in the past, but I'm not too sure, I discovered I was gay, when they grab my butt jokingly, and I enjoyed it, was a awkward situation, as someone who hasn't fully calm down sexually. I found out I was trans and gay later on in life, so I didn't really have a chance to find others, yet and am new to this.
I've been experimenting a little with my sexuality and I'm 100% certain I'm gay, and I'm also into trans-females, which is odd. is there a correct term for that, or am I gay straight in my specific case. since I'm a girl.
I've had to hide it, I've had some girls think I was gay ,and a lot of people did too, it's like they have a "gaydar" so to speak.
I'm not going to bother with online dating, as 99% of the time, It's a Nigerian scammer on the other end, or a catfish.
I'm asking for advice and tips, I'm not sure specifically if this belongs in the girls section, but since I'm trans, I think it's more appropriate here as there are other transgender people here with experience (I'm guessing)
Also.
To make it clear, so no one misunderstands. I'm looking only looking for advice, I'm not looking for anyone on adisc to date me. I'm just simply asking how would I go with dating in the real world.