I just found out my husband has a diaper fetish and likes different aspects of adult baby play. I knew for a week before I was brave enough to talk to him about it. We have been married 7 years and I knew this was something he had been hiding for the 10 years we have been a couple which breaks my heart. We talked for 3 hours and I think we both feel a ton of relief. Our sex life has been lacking for years and I'm starting to think this is going to strengthen our relationship more than hurt it. It took me a while to process all of this, but I'm coming to the conclusion that I would like to try some of these new things in the bedroom. He was brave enough to tell me that he likes me to be the dominant and him submissive and he likes things spontaneous, not acted out. Can anyone give me some tips on how to andwhat to do that is "soft" and pleasing to a Dl/AB. I want to go very slowly at first for both our sakes. I guess I'm willing to explore this, just don't know how t start.... especially trying to play the dominant.