I have searched online to find a forum that felt right. I believe this is the one I need. I am deeply in love with an amazing man. He was very brave and talked about his diaper fetish with me very early on. The desires he described were not so far out of my comfort zone as to scare me. I have happily participated and it works well because I am a nurturing mom and have enjoyed it. None of this bothered me until yesterday. We attended a birthday party for a 3 year old at a popular children's amusement center. He pointed out several little girls with big saggy filled diapers and how cute it was peeking out beneath their dresses. He spent a majority of the time with a barely 2 year old girl on his lap telling her how pretty she is. Several times he asked me to look at her pretty eyes and etc. I am now concerned because he has been pointing out underage girls, particularly if they are too old to need diapers but require them for other reasons such as mental disabilities and physical challenges. I am not sure how to react to this. It really upset me. I couldn't talk to him because I was so worried about how much it will hurt him. What can I do?
I just sent him a text letting him know the feelings I am having. And that I love him and I am working on educating myself. I completely understand why he enjoys this form of happiness. This amazing man has cared for his parents his entire life til the death of his father and now care taking his mother. He desperately needs to be the one cared and nurtured. I am happy to provide that for him. I was just saw disturbed by the amount of physical attention he was giving the young girls.