Be like Nike and do it seriously go to a Walmart out side of where if your afraid to be caught and buy the paci and diapers and you can find places of line to buy frilly dresses or if you want something a little older walmart sells cartoon character sleep sets which are perfect for a little girls night wear with a diaper air also goodwill might have some cute stuff too but it's a matter of just doing it and the more you make these purchases the more comfortable you you will become when you need to get more stuff or also Walgreens is great as I find Walgreens cashiers to be less questioning when a male come and buys girls goodnites, pacis and bottles then ones at Walmart