So I opened up to my fiance early on in our relationship and she was wonderfully accepting of my AB side. I had never felt comfortable enough with a partner to actually express this side of myself, and all of my past relationships have been hollow.
She indulges me in my AB/DL side often enough. Usually once every few weeks after some prodding from me. When I am acting as a little she is super loving and supportive almost always, but there have been a couple of occasions when she gets very freaked out and the fantasy ends abruptly.
Tonight we talked, after one of these occasions, and she mentioned she is terrified that I will want to be diapered every day eventually. This spurred from my requesting to be changed into a clean diaper after my diaper leaked, which is never fun.
I have a difficult time describing to her why it is important, for me, to be in my little space for a longer period of time than just a few hours.
I don't ever want to be in diapers every day or even every week, but when I need it I feel unfulfilled if it's just enough time for 1 wetting and then right back to being an adult.
Is there anyone who has similar experiences with their significant other? or even anyone who has a similar experience as an AB (only needing it occasionally)
She, especially, would love to hear from any caregivers out there with similar experiences.
Thanks everyone for any thoughts