One of the problems I face is that my waist size -- 32 inches -- is almost always on the end of the size range, and I have trouble finding diapers that fit me well. I'm hoping to see if you guys have some suggestions on diapers I should try.
For reference, I am a 145 pound, 5-10 male.
Lots of smalls will go up to 31 to 34, whereas many mediums will start at 32. Even the ones that start at 28 are too big for a good fit cause they typically go all the way up to 42 or higher.
Absorbency really isn't that much of an issue. All of the higher end diapers are absorbent enough for me, the problem I get is leaks when the diaper doesn't fit right.
Diapers that fit right:
Dry 24/7 smalls: I'm surprised these worked, they say they go up to 31 inches, but they run very big for their size. One of the best fits I have ever gotten.
ABU Cushies: These run from 31-36 inches. Absolutely the best fit I have ever gotten, even with the single tapes.
Diapers that don't:
Abena S4 Cloth: These say they go up to 34 inches... they barely fit me and are uncomfortable to wear
Abene M4 (cloth and plastic): These are just too big. They work most of the time, but are prone to leaks around the legs. Yes, it is possible to have too much diaper.
Bambibo Classic: Certainly crazy absorbent, but still doesn't feel comfortable, the size range isn't right for me.
What I'm looking for are some cloth backed diapers (yes, I some people like these) that I could wear discreetly in public that are going to fit me well. Any suggestions?