Hi there. I've been a lurker for some time now, I suppose due to my own insecurities with this newly "accepted" fetish, and due to just being socially awkward. (Which, due to all of the aforementioned lurking, I'm coming to realize is not a unique trait here.) In any case, I have a question I'd like to pose, and I'm sorry if it's been answered:
Do you prefer to wear 'bottoms,' or go bare when padded? Of course by bottoms I mean either plastic pants, underwear of some sort, or a onesie over your diaper. (I'm currently stocked up on a Bambino variety pack, and I don't honestly like cloth—as a point of reference.)
I ask mostly because I'm struggling with whether I'm an AB or just a DL. I know from other threads there has been extensive discussion on that, so we don't have to discuss that too much. But I would like to get your thoughts on this specific topic.
Personally, wearing a onesie makes me feel very little and babyish. Being snapped in one makes me feel snug and secure. But, there is something about wearing one that also takes away from the diaper—the crinkles, the feel of the plastic, my ability to see it—that's off putting.
Perhaps this has been asked. In any case, thank you for your time. And for your (unbeknownst to you) support and understanding.